I reckon 99.9% of this club have got your back Heidi....
I've always said to those that threaten other's to try it in front of everyone and show transparency, see how far it gets you, then i'd normally quote "are you a man or a mouse SQUEAK UP!"
I just have to say that i normally bypass any flaming and arguing posts in forums, as for 1, it's none of my business and 2, i have experienced negative side effects from voicing my opinion.... And merely that.... an OPINION! (what's that saying about opinions again? lol)
In saying that, i have been known to say stupid shit but i make sure to let it be known that it was spoken/written in jest and i expect a clever come back to put me in my place.... still in jest naturally, to add if i offend people be it in jest or by opinion i immediately apologise and stand corrected.
I've never met Heidi but any time she has ever replied to any of MY posts she's been nothing but either helpful or informative but always shown me respect, and what i like best about Heidi is that i see her as a "straight shooter" and that's how people should be.... I know i am!
Anyone can go around acting like they're tough, i choose to be a softie because i know what i'm capable of, (if i explained my life to everyone you'd think "how he didn't end up the most bitter person in the universe is beyond me") but you know what? ya get over things and damn well move on!
....And remeber what ever you have gone through in life there is alway someone out there who has experienced similar or worse scenario's and to never compare because everyone deals with difficult situations in their own way, that's what makes us unique as individuals.
I'd rather have only 1 friend in this world if it meant that i didn't have to have any enemies, i've learned to forgive and get over any bitter feelings.
I couldn't bypass this, i just had to say something because i among many are getting sick and tired of petty bullshit and cannot fathom to what it is that are making people so damn negative?
I don't care if i get the "but i know them better than you do" crap, i take a person on face value and always try to see the good in them no matter what, every person deserves respect and dignity, yeah sometimes we all can rev at the mouth without putting our brain in gear, but be responsible of your actions.
Heidi you've got my vote mate, but if you piss me off.... you won't get a golden star and a happy face stamp
oh that's right.... that only happens in pre-school
Finally i apologise for having an opinion (there's that word again) and if i have offended anyone with what i just said..... get over it and go to another page, read a joke and lighten the f*** up!
Yeah i know i ramble on.