Put The Romance Back

[FastPhil]

Gidday all, the little woman and I have been married now for over 23 years. We've had our ups and downs like most other couples, married off 2 of our 3 daughters in 08'.the 3rd is a great girl but doesn't live with us at the moment.

We need to get some romance into our lives again, we are both fit and healthy and sick of the same old tried and true things we have been doing all these years. Even though we are both busy with work and house renovations and life, we need to make time to put the romance back.

I need help with some ideas, I know their will be some wild and wacky suggestions and that is OK as it adds to the entertainment value of this forum. I also know that I am not the only late 40's member who may be going through something similar.

I thank you for your suggestions.

[bazman]

We need to get some romance into our lives again, we are both fit and healthy and sick of the same old tried and true things we have been doing all these years.
I need help with some ideas, I know their will be some wild and wacky suggestions and that is OK.....

If you seriously wanna put some fun & excitement & adventure back into your relationship.....

I recommend this remedy very, very highly (pun intended).......

http://skydivethebeach.com.au/

(the "romance" u encounter after doing this together will blow ur minds.....guaranteed all-time #1 aphrodisiac!!!)



ps:- buyer beware > > > > > way more powerful (& slightly dearer) than viagra & very highly addictive!!!

[BikerBoy]

You have no idea how much you love something until it's gone.
You need to leave your wife and then find her again.

I don't mean as drastic as in the way it sounds but ya get the idea.

Book a weekend away but go seperately, and avoid each other all week prior.
Don't meet at the location when you get there but maybe in the hotel bar
and try to 'pick her up'. Just make it fun.
Have the weekend together and then leave seperately like it's someone you had an amazing
time with and have gone your seperate ways. After that it will be in your subconcious and
both of you will be itchin to do it again.

Unless you both step outside your normal life together, you'll never find what you lost.

[FastPhil]

You have no idea how much you love something until it's gone.
You need to leave your wife and then find her again.

I don't mean as drastic as in the way it sounds but ya get the idea.

Book a weekend away but go seperately, and avoid each other all week prior.
Don't meet at the location when you get there but maybe in the hotel bar
and try to 'pick her up'. Just make it fun.
Have the weekend together and then leave seperately like it's someone you had an amazing
time with and have gone your seperate ways. After that it will be in your subconcious and
both of you will be itchin to do it again.

Unless you both step outside your normal life together, you'll never find what you lost.

This is the fun of the affair without all the ramifications. I like it!
Thanks for the insight.

[Dan85]

get your self a canoe or kayak and do a couple of over night paddling/camping trips together good for fitness not particularly hard to paddle i can do it so you can do it and its a quiet out of the way adventure where you two can get away from other people and just do what you need/want to do hell if you pick the right rivers you can do it naked if that makes you happy i know it makes me happy

[BabyBusa]

How about going back through the photo albums and looking at the things you did when you first began dating? Then try to recreate some of those memories....so if you used to go to the drive-in do that again, if you used to go away for a weekend then go back to the place you used to go.....oh and don't forget to take photos so that they can be placed in the album next to the old ones.

[FastPhil]

I new I could count on some good advice, all these suggestions are fantastic. Sky diving, the claytons affair, naked canoeing, and reliving the glory days. Thanks to all!

[CeeJay07]

Try thinking of someone else...Jennifer Aniston and Elle MacPherson work for me!!

[Bill Gaheer]

Besides all of above, one thing is for sure that our body's age more then our mind....:). I would discuss it with my partner and would go for surgical procedures i.e. a facelift, fat reduction in certain problem areas, tummy tuck, Breast augmentation (for ladies) if your partner has delivered kids then she needs some of the above (this is important sexually for both) and similarly if men are lazy or looking older then their partners then a facelift etc can be recommended.

either of partners wouldn't mind a 10 yr younger you and in this day - age all is possible.

FYI,,, Thailand is a cheap place for all of above.

my 2 cents.

[FastPhil]

Besides all of above, one thing is for sure that our body's age more then our mind....:). I would discuss it with my partner and would go for surgical procedures i.e. a facelift, fat reduction in certain problem areas, tummy tuck, Breast augmentation (for ladies) if your partner has delivered kids then she needs some of the above (this is important sexually for both) and similarly if men are lazy or looking older then their partners then a facelift etc can be recommended.

either of partners wouldn't mind a 10 yr younger you and in this day - age all is possible.

FYI,,, Thailand is a cheap place for all of above.

my 2 cents.

Bill, have you or your missus had anything done?

[Bill Gaheer]

I just got my LASIK done last year in Oct. Nothing planned for me as I am trying very hard to maintain myself by regular gym, but missus is planning to do some work this year. We did our research in Oct Nov 09 and have found very interesting facts.

Cost wise - I.e Lipo costs about 21000 AUD here and 7000 AUD in Thailand including travel...:) (This will remove the pear shape, Tummy tuck is part of the package)

we went to a local doctor for analysis and she explained a very interesting fact about body fat cells. A human is born with a certain number of fat cells - this number is constant through our life. We get fat because the cells store fats and gets bigger & bigger. During Lypo they remove certain %age of these cells and then body spreads out the remaining cell evenly in next few months.
Hence if you have Lypo chances of going fat again are slim...:) and results are long lasting.

Similar Breast augmentation costs around 4000 AUD in Thailand. I think the single most fact what men miss (at least who think like me) In their GF or Partner or Wife of many years is the firmness.

The new technology used in today's Lypo insure that there is less tissue damage and results are achieved quicker


Cheers
Bill

[Raging]

Aye...my wife wants a boob job when we are done having kids...the only purchase we have both totally agreed on :)

[Bill Gaheer]

Aye...my wife wants a boob job when we are done having kids...the only purchase we have both totally agreed on :)

+1 this will renew your personal lifes, I did had a chance to touch and feel a womens breast post implants (this was in concent with my wife) and the feel is amazing, they do become like one on the 18 yrs old. I only wish mine agrees to this - she only wants a lypo.......:(

[BabyBusa]

I just got my LASIK done last year in Oct.

Hey can someone please tell me what 'LASIK' is?

Anyway, another idea is to go to a secluded place where there is only the two of you....not external distractions, no phones, no TV etc. There are also couples only resorts (not a swingers club, before someone says it.....Bazman ).

[Bill Gaheer]

Laser Eye Surgery, I use to wear glasses before and now I dont. Got it done for 900$ in India - costed me equal to my pair of glasses which I made here.