Opinions from the collective

[Giraffe]

So, just before you read to far this is a little deep and meaningful so if your not interested, pull out now, EJECT! EJECT!

back to the point.

Statement: ' LOVE IS A CHOICE NOT AN EMOTION'
My situation concerns who i beleive is a very special girl whom i care for very much and have grown to admire and care for very very much.
The problem is, she claimed that the relationship was 'unbalanced' and has decided to have a break.
i have tried to talk to her and understand the problem and she has said that everything about what i have done and who i am is not the problem, its the 'unbalanced' feel of the relationship.
it seems now that she has stonewalled the issue and no longer chooses to figure out the issues. From my understanding, it seems that she may have some commitment issues that perhaps stem from previous relationships.
All this from a shrink!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

as for me, i have grown to care about her very much, unlike previous relationships where i have gone for the butterflies and associated feelings of love.

i know i cant force her to do anything but do a fight for it or give up.

my longwinded question from you peeps concerns the statement above.

Tell me about your opinions please.

Thanks Peeps.